I've come to the conclusion it isn't wise to try and imagine her, the woman of your dreams, not to much anyway. Kind of sets preconceived notions in your head that just might get in the way of recognizing her if and when she shows up in your life. Better to build her in bits and pieces, traits, attributes, responses, but not really appearance. Everyone has a double, somewhere, and it could really suck if you build a face and then fall in love with her double who really isn't like her at all. Johnny Walker's wisdom, don't you know...
It may not be wise, but most of us do it anyway. Wisdom is setting aside our imagined woman for a real one if she's truly "the one..."
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