I've written a lot about the unhappy things in the world,
written a lot, and thought even more, about how to disable and dismiss those
unhappy things into the void of history, memories rare to never visited. Let me rule the world for three months and
I’m confident I could make some changes that would work serious improvements in
a couple of key areas, set in motion some things that would over the decades
evolve into a truly serious defense of what is decent and desirable. Yea, if I ruled the world. But, thank you God, I don’t.
Still though, all of that thinking on the negatives has
shown up above and beyond everything else one key and critical thought that desperately
needs mapping. Just as peace is not the
same thing as the absence of war happiness is not the same thing as the absence
of misery. An army cannot make peace, neither shaman nor shrink can truly make
happiness. Needed functions, all
of them, but to my thought far to often misapplied by reason of failure to
understand the fact presented above. They
can establish an environment able to support the higher state of life, an
environment free of active impediments to the desired outcome, but cannot in
and of themselves actually accomplish the work desired. Why? Because they no more understand what is
actually involved with establishing such a higher state of being than anyone
else does.
Happiness would seem a terribly fragile thing, delicate as a
soap bubble floating on the breeze.
Pop. It’s gone, and all we have
are memories, fleeting memories hard to hold, of that most desirable
state. That’s the way you always hear
about it, in the past tense, something once known and forever after sought in any
and every endeavor humanity has ever conceived for itself, perpetually the
prize of prizes in the competitions of life from the excesses of gross
materialism to the gross excesses of social sex and sensuality over-driven to
become absolute sin.
Happiness would seem impossibly fragile, and yet the logic
of nature, the logic of balance in all things says it can’t be that fragile. Can’t be, not really, for the basic
definition to have survived there must be an amount of happiness equal to the
sum of its’ inverses. Were this not true
then the word happiness would have fallen away from defining a primal state of
being just above the division between living and dead to become perhaps a
symbol representing something at best considered an anomaly, an eccentricity,
more likely to have become a symbol representing something considered a
dysfunctional state of irrational self deception.
I’ll give you that when pressed on the subject there are
many who will say that as a matter of quiet fact this is already the case, but
I stand aloof from their assertion. The
fact the vast majority of those who will make such a claim have serious
ulterior motives for such a pessimistic attitude leaves their voracity very
suspect indeed. Think about it for a minute or two, look at how
often the world around you finds its’ motivations, its’ reasons and its’
rationalizations from the idea of happiness as an absent commodity that must be
acquired as a sideline consequence of some other thing. Seriously.
What happens to the advertiser, and the industry being
represented, should even half of the potential customers say “thanks, it’s a
pretty piece of work but you can sell it to someone else who might really need
it, I’m already happy.” What happens to
religion when it can’t sell subscriptions based on the idea that the Heaven they
promise is a better place than Earth by reason of the idea that Heaven is a
place where happiness is the standard state of being while life on Earth is the
opposite? How fares the satyr, the
succubus, in their carnal pursuits when the focus of their lust laughs and says
“it sounds interesting, might be fun, but no, no thanks, think I’ll pass for tonight
and stay with the happiness I already have.”
Right. It would take the wind
right out of all sorts of things to the point they'd just sort of, well, stall out and fall like a
rock.
Not even the American Declaration of Independence is free
from this assumption. As examples of what is considered a human
being’s absolute rights the document reads “Life, liberty and the pursuit of
happiness…” Not the possession of happiness, but the pursuit of it. A very, very
potent difference in ultimate outcome, implying as it does that we have the right to pursue happiness, but no inalienable
right to possess it should our pursuit apprehend it.
Ok, probably true enough, and still of no real value to
fixing the problem. Why is it happiness
is the ultimate goal, and yet the understanding of what it is and how it might
best be created within a life all but taboo? (Please notice, I said created,
not found, not caught, not bought, but built…) If logic gives that happiness cannot be nearly
as scarce as is commonly assumed then why is it not better known?
There has to be a reason, and that reason is my quest for
the year 2015. In 2013 I finally fit all
the pieces into the puzzle as to my history, the how my life was shaped by
forces cold and covert, 2014 was dedicated to assessing and designing the
repair work, I think in 2015 it would be fitting to actually investigate this
riddle and perhaps, maybe, put a bit of light on the subject for myself and
others. It can’t help but be a useful
understanding in the effort of, as I said in my last post, of filling in that
hole with things of satisfaction, and delight.
The subject is happiness, not what it isn't, but rather what
it is, and more importantly, how to set about building some. More to come as the words find their way to
me… for now I can sense the shape, but not set it to words, not yet. The first order of business is figuring out
why the words want to hide… catch you later world.
just my opinion, 'nos, granting that it's probable that everyone has their own definition as to what a state of happiness is, and of course how that state might be accomplished, however temporarily that state should actually exist:
ReplyDelete- happiness is those moments of more than satisfaction which can exist within a continuum of contentment.
- a state of basic contentment being necessary for those fleeting moments of happiness to happen within it.
- the 'pursuit' of happiness being definitionally an aspirational human right.
- continued happiness as a goal in itself may be an impossible dream, and quite selfish in the personal commitment to acquire and maintain it.
- the attainment of even temporary periods of contentment and or happiness may require that one accept at least a modicum of self-delusion.
with the foregoing in mind, i believe myself to be generally contented, with brief moments of happiness.
another book recommendation - 'The Meaning of Human Existence' by Edward O Wilson
;) pip